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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Samuel Henderson said:
Why would the other guy get mad at her if she was pregnant? I could see not wanting to deal with the issue and or fleeing, but getting angry?
wearetheborg said: You are very sweet Samuel, but there are a lot of jerks out there who would get mad at a girl for being pregnant. Any guy that has ever been frustrated and powerless knows that the natural reaction is to get 'angry'. Some guys do it because they're scared or upset, as do some girls, but because men are the dominant sex it comes off more threatening than women do. I agree it's better to deal with the issue than to give into the stress, but that requires actually stopping to think which most guys, especially the non-intellectual ones, are too shocked to do until after. I'd still recommend you try to keep a cool head, but some guys are bad with emotion. And sometimes the news is too overwhelming to really catch up, especially when the girl comes to you already stressed out. Women usually make matters worse in all cases by putting pressure or stress on a guy. When he responds to it they get upset with him, when really they pushed him to it. Like if you disrespect a man or try to degrade a man he is pressured to defend his 'honor'. Often it's responsible for fights or violence of other types. If there was no women to put pressure on guys there would be very little reason to fight. The competition is for women and they make it worse. Then they get upset when it goes further than they intended. In other words, making a guy jealous is a really good way to make another guy bleed. ;) In some extreme cases it can and does lead to death. Murder murder. :D In some cases a pregnancy can be more her fault... For example, if she's supposed to be on birth control and stopped or whatever. Some girls will tell you it's good (even though it's still not 100%) when really they want kids or to tie you down... Men and women both suck. Dustin Dettmer said: Dude thats like one of the first questions I ask girls when I start dating them. Screw what their image is of you!
Any of them got past the first date? The vast majority of women take offense to abortion... They might not take you seriously so early in a relationship, but don't expect a forever thing with abortion in the picture. And it really does have negative effects on women. Regret, guilt, etc. They probably won't be the same after. Women are very (too) attached to children/babies/pregnancies, probably in large part to hormones and other chemical reactions. Even to children they don't know! If you've ever hung out with women you know that they watch children enthusiastically, even ones they don't know... If you examine other animal species' you can see similar behavior between, for example, men and male lions and women and female lions... A better example might be something primate, but lions are a more exciting analogy, I think. I think it's society that complicates things. Society is important for humans though. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: Some girls will tell you it's good (even though it's still not 100%) when really they want kids or to tie you down... Men and women both suck. yes i for got to say that lots and lots of men do this as well.=P sorry for forgetting about it=}. The male reason for doing this is almost the same as the females reason but i think its wosre.={ really bad nowadays. Guys do this stuff to girls so that they can all ways sleep with them when every they want even after they break up with the girl for cheating or any thing. example: guy goes over girl house saying he is cheeking up on her and the kid to see how their doing. Guy is in house saying stuff like" " i still love you " or "I wish thing work out better i want to leaving that other girl because she is nothing compared to you. " Before you know it there both in bed. i really hate it when guys do this to young girls that have a good chance of going to school and making something good out of there life. but what can i do.. its life. guys normally do this to young girls that are about to ready to leave high school because at that age girls are extremely mold-able. note: now i'm breaking the "norm" =P. I only gave this type of info to 2 other girls in my whole life time, excluding my 2 sisters and family. This is what you call playing against "The Game". I'm only doing this because i love how Diana and Manjula were so truthful with their reply's to miran: Plus Diana and Manjula seem like knowledgeable women and probably knew this type of stuff a long time ago.=P EDIT: here is the eye thing you guys though i was making jokes about. wow |
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Crazy Photon
Member #2,588
July 2002
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Quote: If there was no women to put pressure on guys there would be very little reason to fight. I disagree, they would fight over something else. And don't expect women to be perfect when men are not. ----- |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Crazy Photon said: I disagree, they would fight over something else. And don't expect women to be perfect when men are not.
I don't expect women to be perfect. Meh, there's really no point analyzing it because men need women. Are you a dude or a chick? Your avatar and picture conflict... It's fucking creepy, dude. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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Crazy Photon
Member #2,588
July 2002
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Quote: Your avatar and picture conflict...
It's Meia from Vandread. I have it there because I like her bravery, seriousness and determination, things I want/like to have. Hence, there is no conflict {"name":"DSCF4353.JPG","src":"\/\/djungxnpq2nug.cloudfront.net\/image\/cache\/0\/2\/0290e9789b0edcb522ff69216581af2a.jpg","w":800,"h":534,"tn":"\/\/djungxnpq2nug.cloudfront.net\/image\/cache\/0\/2\/0290e9789b0edcb522ff69216581af2a"} Quote: Are you a dude or a chick?
That's a photo of me with my girlfriend ----- |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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as a watcher of human behavor, this is the stuff i like to analize. edit: i know why, but it just makes me happen when im proven right every time. wow |
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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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So you are a watcher, then? -R |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Crazy Photon said:
That's a photo of me with my girlfriend
She reminds me of Her... Ain't that a bitch. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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any one see any thing wrong with Crazy Photon's post? edit: ah we have one victim http://www.allegro.cc/forums/thread/590838/662916#target wow |
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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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He's an anime freak? -R |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: He's an anime freak? nope wrong wow |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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piccolo said: any one see any thing wrong with Crazy Photon's post?
The photo looks like a scene from a horror movie. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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no i was getting at why would he choose to post a pic of him and his girl friend in a tread of this nature. wow |
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Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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Anime is good.
No. I still don't get it. What are you getting at piccolo? ================================================= |
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FMC
Member #4,431
March 2004
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[FMC Studios] - [Caries Field] - [Ctris] - [Pman] - [Chess for allegroites] |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Crazy Photon said: I like her bravery, seriousness and determination, things I want/like to have If the qualities listed are qualities you "want/like to have" in a girlfriend than you've basically implied that your current girlfriend doesn't have one or more of these traits. One could also argue that these are illogical traits to desire in a woman and that they are more of a manly quality... I personally think piccolo is a little too confident in his analytical skills, largely because of support from some other members. You can't for certain know *why* Crazy Photon posted that picture. There could be millions of explanations. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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edit: Crazy Photon why did you post a pic of you and your girl friend in this type of thread when you aready made your point with Quote:
Quote: and the pic in your profile. wow |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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piccolo said:
I'd argue that if piccolo had an answer he would tell us. This seems more like how 'mediums' and 'psychics' impress people. They throw a bone and wait for somebody to throw it back. When they get it back they run with it. Not to mention, why don't you ask him yourself? I'd say piccolo is a good specimen for psychological analysis. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: I'd say piccolo is a good specimen for psychological analysis. I think so too. i want to know why i have not met anyone like me before. the im dumb thing was a bad joke on me for trying to type L0L in stead of a smiely face. thats make analysis on why it sad i was dumb wow |
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ImLeftFooted
Member #3,935
October 2003
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bamccaig said:
Any of them got past the first date? Yes. bamccaig said: The vast majority of women take offense to abortion... They might not take you seriously so early in a relationship, but don't expect a forever thing with abortion in the picture. And it really does have negative effects on women. Regret, guilt, etc. They probably won't be the same after. Women are very (too) attached to children/babies/pregnancies, probably in large part to hormones and other chemical reactions. Even to children they don't know! If you've ever hung out with women you know that they watch children enthusiastically, even ones they don't know... If you examine other animal species' you can see similar behavior between, for example, men and male lions and women and female lions... A better example might be something primate, but lions are a more exciting analogy, I think. I think it's society that complicates things. Society is important for humans though. I understand and agree with all of your points here. Except for the society is everything and nothing, that part I don't really understand. |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: I'd argue that if piccolo had an answer he would tell us im not going to do the same thing he did. im giving him an opportunity to make something up. wow |
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Crazy Photon
Member #2,588
July 2002
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Quote: If the qualities listed are qualities you "want/like to have" in a girlfriend Good thing you put an "If" there! I meant the qualities I want/like to have in myself. Quote: Crazy Photon why did you post a pic of you and your girl friend in this type of thread when you aready made your point with ... and the pic in your profile Because of this: bamccaig said: Are you a dude or a chick?
Although at the moment when I posted I didn't remember that I already had a photo in my profile ----- |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Dustin Dettmer said: Except for the society is everything and nothing, that part I don't really understand. There are times when it makes perfect sense and times when it makes no sense at all. It's everything and nothing. The actual terminology was a way that She used to refer to it. At least, I assume that's what she meant. It's really a conclusion that I came to and when she said that to me it just fit. She was always really annoying about having 'inside jokes' and refusing to explain them; even though She would tell them to me in MSN conversations over and over... If She's not going to tell me why say it to me? She can laugh on her own without sending the message to me...... -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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Quote:
Quote: If the qualities listed are qualities you "want/like to have" in a girlfriend Good thing you put an "If" there! I meant the qualities I want/like to have in myself. The plot thickens... -R |
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Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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Quote: One could also argue that these are illogical traits to desire in a woman and that they are more of a manly quality... Those traits seem reasonable. I'd rather date a girl with those traits than a girl who runs away from problems and is ignorant and childish. Edit: ================================================= |
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