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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: manjula I could not say it better. She thinks your her gay friend. If she dose not have a clue that you like her then you needed to let her know along time ago. right now is a bad/good time to tell her you like her. Depending on what you want to do with her. If you just want to have a few nights with her then, wait get her to tell the guy that she thinks she is pregnant. if the guy get upset and stuff and start getting mad at her then she will call you telling u that started greeting mad at her. When she start talk about it tell her: " this is really serous do you want me to come over so we can talk more. Get her over your house or her house or in a private place. Get her crying about the matter then hung her with two arms around her back, look into her eyes and tell her this guy dose not deserve you I love you more." then kiss her. This will get you the night with her or get her to stop with the gay friend atmosphere. Quote: So to sum up: keep it in your pants and don't be a cuddle biatch. i hope those are tow different sums because cuddle biatch(gay friends) don't get to hit it. edit: wow |
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Kibiz0r
Member #6,203
September 2005
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My advice on women: Seriously, I couldn't even tell by the original post if you like her or not, so I'm just going to reply as if you do. (which is an obvious part of your problem, you're being way too secretive about how you feel) I echo 23 about getting advice somewhere else. SomethingAwful, believe it or not, is actually a good place. Also, it seems like you're so far in the friend zone that you should probably change your legal address to 123 JustAFriend Ave. Your only option there is to make the big dramatic "omg I've been in love with you for so long, blah blah blah" and make sure it's in a slow conversation (not slow to the point of stopping, though) so she feels like she has a lot of time to take it into consideration and respond. Or if you get a romantic opportunity, like piccolo suggested, maybe... but that might just leave her confused. As for the pregnancy bit, I'm not touching that with a 1337-character cipher. --- |
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Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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Or because manjula and Diana totally rock and just want to cut us guys some slack every now and then ================================================= |
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mEmO
Member #1,124
March 2001
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Did miran at any point mention that the actually has amorous feelings for this woman? I can't recollect it comming from him, although I admittedly didn't read all the posts in the previous threads. --------------------------------------------- |
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Kibiz0r
Member #6,203
September 2005
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Quote: Did miran at any point mention that the actually has amorous feelings for this woman? I can't recollect it comming from him, although I admittedly didn't read all the posts in the previous threads.
If he didn't, I don't know why he would even bring it up. But I had the same problem, as you can see above. --- |
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wearetheborg
Queen of the Universe
June 2003
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Honestly, I genuinely feel bad for guys who get used like that...
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: Or if you get a romantic opportunity, like piccolo suggested, maybe... but that might just leave her confused. That opportunity will only come if the guy make a big fuss about her being pregnant. it plays on her emotional and confused state she thinking is she pregnant should i keep baby no matter what the guys says are should she listen to what the guy says and get rid of the baby. NOte: I said it is a bad time to tell her you like her if, the guy dose not get mad with her about being pregnant. wow |
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mEmO
Member #1,124
March 2001
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Quote: Honestly, I genuinely feel bad for guys who get used like that. It sometimes works as a tactic if what you're aiming for is one of her friends. --------------------------------------------- |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: Honestly, I genuinely feel bad for guys who get used like that... yeah i know what you mean but your breaking the "norm". normally when a guy asks a girl about a girl and issues, unless the girl he is asking hates the girl hes asking about or likes the guy who ask her; the girl always says the guy is in the wrong some how. example: guy say; she treats me like this. she called me a this. wow |
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Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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Quote: if, the guy dose not get mad with her about being pregnant.
Why would the other guy get mad at her if she was pregnant? I could see not wanting to deal with the issue and or fleeing, but getting angry? ================================================= |
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wearetheborg
Queen of the Universe
June 2003
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You are very sweet Samuel, but there are a lot of jerks out there who would get mad at a girl for being pregnant.
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ImLeftFooted
Member #3,935
October 2003
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wearetheborg said: ... there are a lot of jerks out there who would get mad at a girl for being pregnant. Which leads us to the next question, why do girls date guys who are so obviously unintelligent? |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote:
Why would the other guy get mad at her if she was pregnant? I could see not wanting to deal with the issue and or fleeing, but getting angry? The way i see it. She is young and the guy is older. This also seem to be her first time in this situation (its no so easy to get pregnant).This girl is the type of girl that will be all silent around the guy when hes asking what should we do about it. She will say stuff like "i don't know" .She will proborly put her abortion views out there as well. if the guy says his not ready for a baby lets have an abortion. Ok?, she will say stuff like "i don't know" or be all silent and mice off on him. That will get him pissed. because hes not sure if the girl is hearing him or not. Quote: He can't exactly go about saying "It's all YOUR fault" to her now can he? yes he can i would post how but i think its a little too graphic for the thread =P. PM me if you want to know how. wow |
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mEmO
Member #1,124
March 2001
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Wasn't there a parenthood-case where a tennis star actually got off with it being the womans fault? It was probably in the media about 6 years ago. --------------------------------------------- |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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jhuuskon said: Simple. "Go see a doctor."
She's female. There is no cure. OICW said: Unless he has the same problem as me - my mind knows it's hopeless, but my heart "thinks" otherwise.
I know that feeling well. I went with the heart... It hurts. Something still reminds me of Her now and then and I get the same pain in my chest... I saw Her dad in traffic today. He passed me on the highway. I admit the thought of pit maneuvering him into a pole crossed my mind {angel-smiley} as he lined up perfectly to the left, but I didn't. I didn't even speed up or anything... Instead I stayed *I was actually below the speed limit since I essentially coasted when I though of Her... wearetheborg said: Honestly... For your own safety, don't suggest abortion or anything else for that matter.
She's right about that. **You can't even say the above strikeout. It's none of your business what she does, unfortunately. wearetheborg said: The aftermath (of an abortion or even birth) is hard to deal with, and seeing as how she's over the top with her emotions, she might blame you for the outcome. Besides, abortion seems to have a negative effect on women... I wouldn't want that for one I care about. manjula said: Miran, this girl is using you as her cuddle biatch.
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: You are very sweet Samuel, but there are a lot of jerks out there who would get mad at a girl for being pregnant. There are also girls that will trap a guy with a child, to force the guy to alway be with her. This is bad because you wandering if the girl you dealing with is trying to do the same thing to you. This method dose not work to good in current times because most guys don't care about their offspring and who bears their seeds. but some girls still do this type of thing even though theres a chance the guy would not care. This is bad if it were to happen to a guy like me that cares about their offspring. Because i don't give away children or any type of dna my children are the me's of the future then must be trained and raise by me. my offspring must be stronger and smarter then my self. wow |
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nonnus29
Member #2,606
August 2002
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Quote: Because i don't give away children or any type of dna my children are the me's of the future then must be trained and raise by me. my offspring must be stronger and smarter then my self. Spoken like a true Namaken, now go find the Dragon Balls!!!11 |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Ehhh, fuck it. Again, it's like religion. You know something's wrong, but there's nothing you can do about it. For you miran, all I can say is that I feel your pain, I agree it's bullshit, and there's nothing more we can do for you... :(
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miran
Member #2,407
June 2002
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Thanks to everyone who replied. I'll report with more results later. -- |
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ImLeftFooted
Member #3,935
October 2003
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Quote: Even if you casually mentioned abortion during that phone call it could negatively effect her image of you. Dude thats like one of the first questions I ask girls when I start dating them. Screw what their image is of you! There are things that suck a whole lot more then some girl you dated once not liking you. |
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Idealius
Member #1,619
November 2001
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www.sosuave.com 's discussion forums is an alright place. (Probably just as bad as SA) But, its straight and to the point. Sounds like you're so good at empathizing with women that you've become her woman friend just to echo some other responses. -- You don't share your feelings with a dog, it doesn't with you. They're a different species ;P You'll find your rhythm with women. Personally in this situation I would chill. Let her tell you when she's not pregnant. Then, go into "I'm a man mode" if it doesn't come naturally. After a couple of interactions like that you just avoid her until an opportunity comes to make a manly move - If you were so inclined. Otherwise have fun with your *friend*! |
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kentl
Member #2,905
November 2002
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Quote: Dude thats like one of the first questions I ask girls when I start dating them. Screw what their image is of you!
But we have to keep in mind that you're still just a little kid. |
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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I've learned from this thread that Diana and Manjula are very smart! |
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OICW
Member #4,069
November 2003
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Quote: I've learned from this thread that Diana and Manjula are very smart! Yep, and actually the kind of women we all dream about. [My website][CppReference][Pixelate][Allegators worldwide][Who's online] |
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: www.sosuave.com 's discussion forums is an alright place. (Probably just as bad as SA) But, its straight and to the point. yes its sound like a good book. but from the summery it sounds like it only give you the knowledge about the this around you. It may give you some about how to deal with the things around you but i think it also hides stuff from you . i think that because of this part. Quote: By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as great as she is. there are way to get girls that "don't" like you to like you i dont think they go into that. i recommended a book to you guys a while back. that book goes into a little more detail about getting what you want from a women. Still this book www.sosuave.com is a good read for all you non-believers of "The game". wow |
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