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I don't get women at all
GullRaDriel
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My (lame too) sig is happy ;-p

Samuli: And coming to the theme thing, I can say that your have its own theme now ;-p

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We reap what we sow.

It makes me think to "who sows the wind pick the storm"

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OICW
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November 2003
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It's pretty simple: women are more "complex." Thus, they demand more and think they offer more.

Which means they have non-trivial imaginary part and therefore explains the trouble with them ;D

Oh by the way Miran, R.P.Feynman had some nice advices and observations on women - Surely, you're joking mr. Feynman.

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Bob Keane
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June 2006

I wish I could add something constructive to this conversation. There is a woman I work with (or around) that may be interested in me. A couple of times when I had lunch, she pulled up a chair next to me. Unfortunately I was finishing my break when she started hers so I had to get up and leave. Hopefully she won't think I am a snob.

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Crazy Photon
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July 2002
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May I quote the Law of Attraction? You get what you think about, your thoughts determine your destiny.

You can choose to continue being sad or you can choose to be happy. Whichever you choose, you are right.

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piccolo
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January 2003
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A (couple) of times when I had lunch, she pulled up a chair next to me.

wow she must have a lot of confidence. or she thinks your shy and is being the aggressor (this means she is well experienced in getting the guys she wants)

or it could be the work environment you job has set up where everyone talks to each other. i would have to know more about your job and the girl to make any further conclusions.
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Crazy Photon: its called something else too we learned in it psychology

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Crazy Photon
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July 2002
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I don't understand women saying they don't understand men. We act logically and don't change all that often (or at all really: our actions are always predictable if you analyze the situation).

Consider this: life is change. Perhaps with new knowledge over time, you can choose wiser actions.

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Samuel Henderson
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August 2003
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Bob Keane said:

Hopefully she won't think I am a snob

I don't think there is anything too wrong with what you did. If this happened two or 3 days in a row she may be wondering what is up, but if it is just an occasional happening I am sure she doesn't think anything of it.

I guess how you leave would affect her thoughts as well. I would probably greet her, look at my watch or clock and then appologize with a phrase like "<Sigh> breaks over, I gotta get back to work".

Simply standing up and walking out as she pulls up a chair would seem standoffish

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Kikaru
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August 2006
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I think we should contact the authorities at Roswell about piccolo, because he is clearly not human. :-/

"I understand women." That was a fatal flaw in your cover, piccolo. 8-)

miran
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June 2002

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There is a woman I work with (or around) that may be interested in me. A couple of times when I had lunch, she pulled up a chair next to me.

Until a few weeks ago a girl (student, early twenties) worked here (something like internship or something) for a couple of months. She would always go to lunch at around 11:00 after most other people would have already finished eating, sit down in a corner and have lunch by herself. She seemed like a shy type of a girl, so a couple of times I sat at her table and started talking to her. She was obviously not very comfortable with this and didn't want to say much. All I remember from our conversations were the words "my boyfriend". I'm not sure if she really had a boyfriend or if she just wanted to get rid of me... :-X

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Unfortunately I was finishing my break when she started hers so I had to get up and leave. Hopefully she won't think I am a snob.

Your lunch break is timed? Here people go to lunch whenever they feel like it, eat their food and than sit and talk for 10-15 minutes or something. Not always, but often. So if someone comes and sits next to you as you're already finishing, the usual thing to do is to stay there and talk to them until they're done as well and then you leave together... :-/

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LennyLen
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December 2004
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Your lunch break is timed?

That's how it is for 80-90% of the workforce here.

Rampage
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December 2002
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Is this still open? I ever thought so many allegators had experience with women, since there are lots of complaining about them. :P

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miran
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June 2002

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Is this still open?

It will continue to be open for as long as it takes. :)

Yesterday I had one of the longest phone conversations with this girl in my life (over one hour). I asked her about what she's going to do about the distance between herself and guy #1 and how this is supposed to work at all. She said she won't do anything. She'll stay where she is now for another three years until she finishes school and she's going to wait for this guy all this time. They'll see each other only every now and then, not even every weekend! I mean just how does she expect this to work?

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Matt Smith
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Yesterday I had one of the longest phone conversations with this girl in my life (over one hour).

Who wants to bet on that being her longest phone call that day?

See, I understand women perfectly. ;D

piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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buddy her up build a ruteen of talking with her make sure she enjoys it make her laugh and stuff.
then break the ruteen. if you did a good job at making her enjoy the old phone calls, when something bad happens to her or she gets bord she will call you and ask why you don't call her any more.
then you say:
"well... i wanted to (be with you)( or input what ever you want to do with her), so i was trying to understand you but i was not getting any where so i cut my self off from you. "

this could bring about a convocation like: well you knew i was with so and so : you say:
" well i know i know but if you was not such a buityful person i would not have cared about you. well i already quit so it dose not make any sense me explaining to you how i felt about you."

if she says cant we be freids don't exsecpt(this depens on the type of girl she is some times with a little alcohol(cataless) you can get-in later by exsecpt her friend ship).

me personly i dont do reagalar firend ships with girls not my style.

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miran
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June 2002

Wise words! Two thumbs up! :)

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Samuel Henderson
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August 2003
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:-/

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Johan Halmén
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September 2001

Ain't piccolo a bit like Joey in Friends? Self-confident talk about girls. Spelling.

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Samuel Henderson
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August 2003
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This is the voice and conviction I hear in my head when reading piccolo's posts. (Only piccolo's though).

Edit: It's mostly safe for work. Just text and audio.

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bamccaig
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July 2006
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Johan Halmén said:

Ain't piccolo a bit like Joey in Friends?

That's not the impression I get...

He's more like that guy that makes the girl you care about cry and hate guys... >:( He is the source of women's stereotype of guys.

piccolo
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January 2003
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He's more like that guy that makes the girl you care about cry and hate guys... >:( He is the source of women's stereotype of guys.

dude this is real life my sister has lots of friends that do the same things that girl was/is doing to you. what else do you think girls talk about on the phone? they plot they take advise from other girls (good or bad).ex example of plot : girl has guy she likes and wants him to like her. girl also has guy who likes her and chases her(you). girl gets guy she likes to see that she has guys chasing her. guy she likes gets jelus and instrasted in girl.girl cuts off guy that is chasing her(you). guy she likes has sex with her. guy she likes is satisfied and leaves girl. girl is sad girl finds back guy that was chasing her. girl builds back up selfasteam. cicle repates with new guy she likes or in many cases the same guy she likes.

edit: don't be blinded good guys lose or get sloppy seconds.

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Samuel Henderson
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August 2003
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There may be some truth to what Piccolo is saying, but I can't make heads or tails of it =\

(Except for his edit)

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bamccaig
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July 2006
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Some women are bitch and some men are assholes. If you treat the nice girls like bitches you only create new bitches and pretty soon there's nothing but bitches. Works the same way if women treat men like assholes.

What's your first instinct when a woman mistreats you? To mistreat the next one and get 'them' back. If you play into this game you're only making it worse. Most likely the girl mistreated you because she, or a friend of hers, was mistreated first.

I prefer to be above it. Some women are bitch and they'll never really understand what men are. That's their loss. Some men are assholes and they'll never really understand what women are. That's their loss.

Often women are taught that men are insensitive and only after one thing. If you play that game you're only enforcing it.

piccolo
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January 2003
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when i met my ex she said she had been cheated on before and she would not cheat on any one because she knows what it feels like to be cheated on. big long speech she gave me. i told her well i don't have any time for any games because i'm school and when i go back i have to work to get money to pay for school so i would not have time time cheat. i should have played mind games on her but i did not because i was in school and had no time.

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my mom always told me not to mess-up anyones girl children. so every girl i get with i try to help them out in life.
i'm not a bad guy im just smart.

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GullRaDriel
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September 2003
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This thread is going mad. You all are overheated. Have a drink, smoke good weed and let your mind be free. Sometimes too much thought overkill the subject.

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