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Love letters - OR - Yet another failed thread about a woman...
miran
Member #2,407
June 2002

This should be the new logo. Allegro, the saddest game programming library in the world. :'(

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GullRaDriel
Member #3,861
September 2003
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Well, some updates on my situation:

Even if we try it's impossible to live under the same roof without her to try to crush me a day on two.

I'm currently actively searching for a little flat to rent. I hope I'll have one soon, even if it's shitty.

We have some times when she's able to talk to me, others when she can just shout at me.

Hell, it's still going to be hell for a while. Let's hope everything will roll soon.

BTW I don't feel like I should go back with her. I'm just a little bit sad about all the things still to kill/manage/think/forget.

And I just near killed my space key. Should stop hitting the keyboard so hard.

EDIT: And if there were people feeling strange because I deactivated my FB account, don't. I'm feeling OK. It was just easier to just cut the account rather than bearing everyone advices.

"Code is like shit - it only smells if it is not yours"
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Johan Halmén
Member #1,550
September 2001

I would do the same. But you can count on us on a.cc. Every advice we give is just a piece of shit. No reason to cut this account.

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Elias
Member #358
May 2000

Every advice we give is just a piece of . No reason to cut this account.

Does it also apply to the advice not to cut this account? :)

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GullRaDriel
Member #3,861
September 2003
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A.cc is my web nest, and I love all allegroits, just because they can help me with message like this one:

"But you can count on us on a.cc. Every advice we give is just a piece of shit."

It shouldn't help me in any way, but it also has stolen a big smile from me when I read it ;-)

Dennis your crying gator is THE winner of the topic ^^

Edit: BTW things are keeping going on, with and without hurts. Flat is for Saturday at least, and all the other points regarding our current flat have been talked.

At least when she does not shout, Alex is kind of a nice and strong woman. I really hope things will go better for her with someone else quickly (as for me). She deserves it.

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Derezo
Member #1,666
April 2001
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... found this in my travels on the Intarwebbingmeshnets:
old flames burning

13 years.

"He who controls the stuffing controls the Universe"

van_houtte
Member #11,605
January 2010
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just wanted to let you guys know that I am awesome. really, i am.

k thanx

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GullRaDriel
Member #3,861
September 2003
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A serious grudge ? She can just already have a life and not want him to interfere.

"Code is like shit - it only smells if it is not yours"
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wearetheborg
Queen of the Universe
June 2003

Hope everything works out for you and Alex... You are both very kind people who deserve the best.

Good to see that everyone else is still alive and well.

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Dizzy Egg
Member #10,824
March 2009
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Is anyone interested in writing a 'punch Yves in the face' game for stress relief?

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Striker
Member #10,701
February 2009
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wearetheborg said:

Queen of the Universe

"Picture or it hasn't happened"

GullRaDriel
Member #3,861
September 2003
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I saw her IRL. She IS the queen of the universe. No picts needed ^^

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Oscar Giner
Member #2,207
April 2002
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She doesn't specify which universe, though :P

23yrold3yrold
Member #1,134
March 2001
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So who's queen of the multiverse?

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Johan Halmén
Member #1,550
September 2001

Which multiverse?

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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Queen.

So, I totally had massive relationship drama last night. I'm going to refrain from posting it on the internet. ;)

torhu
Member #2,727
September 2002
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Those guys look incurably British, don't they?

Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Why would the queen be anything but British?

Bruce Perry
Member #270
April 2000

I'm totally going to post mine.

I've been in a relationship for most of this year. It's had its high points and its low points, as I'm sure all relationships do. We're different in many ways but similar in others, and it's difficult to know how much the differences matter. It's also worth mentioning that it's long-distance, with me in the Cambridge area and her in Berlin. We met in an orchestra while she was temporarily in Cambridge, and we've both visited each other a couple of times each since. A recurring theme is that we're not sure how our lives can ultimately converge, but neither of us wants to accept that.

It's been low lately, and I've been wanting to give other people a chance. There's someone in the orchestra who is nice to me and generally extremely attractive - and equally nice to other people. You know the type: she'll eventually choose someone and accidentally lead a lot of people on in the process without meaning to, and most of us should just accept that it's not worth the stress. Nevertheless, feelings are difficult to ignore, you know?

I discussed my doubts about my existing relationship with my existing relationshipee. She values honesty and understands situations like this, and asked if there was anyone else, so I told the truth and she couldn't fault me for it. Nevertheless, it does mean we've all but broken up, and now I won't get to share with her the wonderful Rachmaninov concert that doesn't seem so wonderful any more.

The feelings for the other girl have now somewhat gone and I'm just feeling stupid. On the plus side, at least I have now experienced the other side of the rebound situation, and would understand better if a girl in a similar position ever messed me around.[1]

Maybe I should just tell her how I now feel and say I'm really sorry and feel stupid and want her to come. :-/

References

  1. Congratulations, you have reached Level 2 Girls! A skill cape has been added to your inventory! ;D

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Matthew Leverton
Supreme Loser
January 1999
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Pro tip: Don't tell her about the other girl. What's the point? Every guy has to lie to his woman, telling her she's the most beautiful person in the world, he doesn't find any other woman attractive, blah, blah, blah.

You do not get points for being honest. :P

Bruce Perry
Member #270
April 2000

You're the wisest person in the world, Matthew.

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Matthew Leverton
Supreme Loser
January 1999
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You're the wisest person in the world, Matthew.

You are a fast learner! If I were a woman, and you were my lover, then that lie would make me very happy. :o

SiegeLord
Member #7,827
October 2006
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If you're not ready to play Xanatos speed chess (with the desired outcome being the preservation of the relationship) you're not ready for a relationship. You'll just end up hurting yourself and/or your partner.

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Specter Phoenix
Member #1,425
July 2001
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You don't get points for being honest, but it depends on the girl. You can lose points for lying when it comes to some girls. My wife hates when I tell her that because she knows all guys look at other women. Being honest with my wife is safer than lying and her knowing it cause she knows how to make me miserable when she is mad at me.

miran
Member #2,407
June 2002

Being honest with my wife is safer than lying and her knowing it cause she knows how to make me miserable when she is mad at me.

In other words your wife owns you. ;D

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