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Andrei Ellman
Member #3,434
April 2003
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Possumdude0 said: Well, I was involved in an orientation program here called "MasterPlan" and so was she. That's how we met. To make myself look even worse, we ate lunch together yesterday. I didn't ask or anything, she just waited for me to get my food and get through the checkout line and sat down with me. Which is why I'm really hating myself for being afraid to ask her because I already know that hse likes me, at least a little. If she's eaten lunch with you, you already know that the thought of eating lunch together does not repulse her. Just ask her if you want to have lunch together sometime. Keep that up for a couple of lunches, then ask her what she's doing that evening, and sggest something for the two of you. If that goes well, invite her back to your place, and if that goes well, things jst keep getting better... Possumdude0 said: If she already has a boyfriend, I'm not worried about him. She's from Canada, and just moved here for college last Sunday. Although if she does then i don't want to steal his girl, because I know I'd get pissed if someone did it to me. If you try and start the relationship verbally, she'll have time to think about whether or not she wants to be unfaithful to her BF. However, if you start it by purely being caught up in lust, lust overcomes rational thought and she may end up being more likely to do something she'll later regret. Slartibartfast said: She can do worse than that, like kick you in the groin.
A kick in the groin Thinking that you should have asked her when you didn't Possumdude0 said: Then I'll go over and ask her. I've decided, my spirits are up, and I'm going through with it. Wish me luck. Good luck! Possumdude0 said: The "be yourself" advice is pointless It is if you don't know what sort of person you are, but that's a story for another time... Billybob said: Ninja girl is in your ceiling watching you masterbate
wearetheborg said: Yeah, it's just that we're good at not showing it. Or maybe it's 'cause guys don't place much of an emphasis on someone not being overtly nervous. Quote: I found her! I was walking down to her room to see if she was back yet, and I happened to look over my shoulder and there she was. And, better yet, she said yes!
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Quote: If she's eaten lunch with you, you already know that the thought of eating lunch together does not repulse her. That's why I felt so stupid for being afraid. I'm surprised no one else picked up on that.
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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Most fears (anxieties) are inherently stupid.
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Steve++
Member #1,816
January 2002
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Quote: I found her! I was walking down to her room to see if she was back yet, and I happened to look over my shoulder and there she was. And, better yet, she said yes! I salute you! Quote: Of course, now I feel like an idiot for being worried in the first place, but I'll appease myself with that old saying, "Hindsight is always 20/20". You should feel like an idiot for posting on allegro.cc when you could be in her dorm hitting that shit. Possumdude0 said: [quote Steve++]For the love of god, just grab her and kiss her. It's really not that difficult.
Yeah, I jsut decided to ignore that statement. If it was meant to be taken seriously then Steve++ needs some help. |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Quote: It worked on your mom last night
Damn it! i wished she'd quite doing that with people i know! Seriously, saying that about my mom, how does that effect me? She's a grown, single woman who can make her own choices. But if you start giving details, I start kicking ass, I really wouldn't want to know about it.
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Steve++
Member #1,816
January 2002
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BAF was right. |
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CGamesPlay
Member #2,559
July 2002
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Quote: Seriously, saying that about my mom, how does that effect me? By saying that about your mom it effects your face. Bitch. /me breaks out the celebratory champagne! Here's to a 2-month-or-longer relationship! -- Ryan Patterson - <http://cgamesplay.com/> |
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Matthew Leverton
Supreme Loser
January 1999
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I've already reserved space in the DB for the "I'm single again" thread. |
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relpatseht
Member #5,034
September 2004
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Place your bets.
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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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I give it less than three months. -R |
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Slartibartfast
Member #8,789
June 2007
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Quote:
BAF was right. You people just don't get Possumdude's humor. ---- |
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Kibiz0r
Member #6,203
September 2005
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Or mine. --- |
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Vanneto
Member #8,643
May 2007
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I like all of your humors. This forum isnt so up-tight like others. You guys talk about everything else in a thread except about the topic. Well, Ill give it 1 month. But hey, let the power of Love() suprise us. Bet *b; // void place_bet( int how_much , char *description) b->place_bet(10, "That the relationship of Possumdude0 and his crush wont last more than 1 month!"); delete b;
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Quote: You people just don't get Possumdude's humor. Most people don't. Including myself, sometimes. Quote: Here's to a 2-month-or-longer relationship!
Quote: I give it less than three months.
Quote: Well, Ill give it 1 month.
Quote: I've already reserved space in the DB for the "I'm single again" thread.
Gee guys, thanks for the vote of confidence.
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Take it a day at a time and communicate when you have problems. Then, good luck! |
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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Well, since we're betting I might as well join in to. $10 on lifetime.
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Well, let's hold off the bets until the after the first date, at least. We're still trying to find a time that fits both our schedules. Right now I'm thinking Monday, because she's busy today and I'm busy tomorrow. I'll let you know how it works out.
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Slartibartfast
Member #8,789
June 2007
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Ahhh, living vicariously. That is the life. ---- |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Well, the stuff she was going to do got canceled, so we went and ate a Subway. The food was good, but the company was much better. We talked about all sorts of things. She just lost her ID card, she misses her family back home, and she can't wait to see them when the semester ends and she goes back. Wait, what? That's right, she moves back to Canada at Christmas. She especially can't wait to see her boyfriend again. Wait, WHAT! WTF is she doing going to dinner with me if she has a boyfriend? For some reason I suddenly feel like a dumbass. A big, fat one. With one of those dunce caps you see in cartoons. Sorry about your $10, Billybob.
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Mark Oates
Member #1,146
March 2001
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AAAAHHHHH!HGGG!GH!GH!GG!G!!!! -- |
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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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I win $10! -R |
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De Baimbo
Member #8,944
August 2007
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Possum, don't you understand? You have a big chance! Her boyfriend is far away and won't be seeing her for months, you have the time to take it slow. It happened to me last year at university, I had the time to open my heart to her and slowly conquer her. Keep going out with her. |
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manjula
Member #3,569
June 2003
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if she dumps her bf for you, you can be sure that you may end up in the same boat one day. |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Quote: if she dumps her bf for you, you can be sure that you may end up in the same boat one day. Yeah. I know. And like I said earlier, I wouldn't want to steal another guy's girlfriend, because I wouldn't want mine stolen if I had one.
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. Makes me wish I had read the entire thread befoire I started writing my response, but the advice is there for anyone who wants it.
