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Rampage
Member #3,035
December 2002
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Really? I guess you don't want to know she's already found my prostate gland
Nothing like a tale of the legendary Male Anus Explorers before dinner! -R |
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Evert
Member #794
November 2000
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Quote: BUT what about toga's? Men and woman wore togas....
Young girls wore toga's, grown women didn't. |
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Neil Walker
Member #210
April 2000
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I was lying of course, my wife wouldn't even go near the inside of my arse with a barge pole (that's a figurative not literal barge pole for those of an ASD nature). Neil. wii:0356-1384-6687-2022, kart:3308-4806-6002. XBOX:chucklepie |
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Kibiz0r
Member #6,203
September 2005
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Quote: for those of an ASD nature Accredited Symbian Developer? --- |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Quote: Accredited Symbian Developer? Autistic Spectrum disorders. People with ASD (especially those of us with Asperger's) tend to take everything they hear (and to a lesser extent, read) literally. It took me years to realize that when people say "How are you/how's it going" they're not really asking you how you are.
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Neil Walker
Member #210
April 2000
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sorry to confuse you but yes they are. only ignorant people ask how you are without meaning it. as for ASD my son's just been diagnosed (after 5 years of tests and undecidedness) but at the very high-end (mild form). but after this I've been questioning myself and my idiosyncracies and wondering whether I'm the same or not. My most recent case was I realised yesterday I can't use/have an aversion to cutlery with ceramic handles or with patterns on the handles - but I think that was just a bad memory from the past Neil. wii:0356-1384-6687-2022, kart:3308-4806-6002. XBOX:chucklepie |
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Is there some kind of online test for ASD? |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Quote: sorry to confuse you but yes they are. only ignorant people ask how you are without meaning it. Perhaps it's a local custom, but people use it a lot here as a greeting. I once had a placement interview at the Anxiety Disorders Unit, and when I was met my the doctor, she greeted me with "how are you." I spent about 20 seconds trying to determine whether she was asking how I was in general, or if she was asking in a clinical capacity. She finally clicked to what the problem was and told me she just meant hello.
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axilmar
Member #1,204
April 2001
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Quote: I once had a placement interview at the Anxiety Disorders Unit, and when I was met my the doctor, she greeted me with "how are you." I spent about 20 seconds trying to determine whether she was asking how I was in general, or if she was asking in a clinical capacity. She finally clicked to what the problem was and told me she just meant hello. eehhhhmmm...how to say it...aren't you overreacting a bit? how is it logical that a person you have never met before is really interested in how you are doing? just out of curiocity: what thought processes drove you to that conclusion (that maybe she is interested in learning how are you)? |
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nonnus29
Member #2,606
August 2002
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Heh, everymorning my boss walks by my desk to her desk and says: 'hi, how's it going?' I still don't know if she means me, or the system. So I just say 'good morning' and ignore the rest. I suppose it's okay because it's been going on that way since we last rearranged desk about a year ago. edit; here 'how's it going' can be a greeting as well. |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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I'm going to answer those questions in reverse order. Quote: just out of curiocity: what thought processes drove you to that conclusion (that maybe she is interested in learning how are you)? The fact that she said to me "how are you." I don't know if she used the normal intonation to indicate that she was asking a question or not, as I don't pick things like that up unless I'm actively concentrating on doing so. At the time however, I was so nervous most of my concentration was devoted to stopping myself from throwing up (having to sit in a strange place with a lot of anxious people is not good when you have a phobia of being around other people). Quote: how is it logical that a person you have never met before is really interested in how you are doing? Logic doesn't count for much when you're on the verge of having a panic attack.
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Neil Walker
Member #210
April 2000
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Quote: Is there some kind of online test for ASD? not really as there are no set rules and the symtoms can't be taken individually, like my cutlery disorder it took about 6 specialists in different areas and 5 years to decide that they couldn't decide for my son and instead waited another year, after which decided to put him on the spectrum based on a physical (poor fine/gross motor skills, balance) and emotional (immaturity), social (hard to interact with peers), poor short term memory, lack of understanding of idioms. Neil. wii:0356-1384-6687-2022, kart:3308-4806-6002. XBOX:chucklepie |
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Evert
Member #794
November 2000
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Quote: It took me years to realize that when people say "How are you/how's it going" they're not really asking you how you are.
The first time I heard that as a greeting was when I was in the US last year. We weren't sure what the proper response was, so we tried different things. We ended up getting a very confused look when we tried "very well, and yourself?" Quote: Is there some kind of online test for ASD? I recently read a book, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, which is about a boy with Asperger's Syndrome. I'm told it's a fairly good test to see how much you reconise of yourself in the main character. Not exactly on-line, but I also wouldn't have much faith in a self-test for a (any) mental disorder (even a fairly mild one). |
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Oh well.. Just wondered. |
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Trezker
Member #1,739
December 2001
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When people ask me "How are you?" I just say No. |
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Anti-social much? |
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axilmar
Member #1,204
April 2001
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Quote: Logic doesn't count for much when you're on the verge of having a panic attack. perhaps it's extreme shyness... |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Quote: perhaps it's extreme shyness. In the way that being psychotic is extreme weirdness maybe.
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axilmar
Member #1,204
April 2001
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Quote: In the way that being psychotic is extreme weirdness maybe. ...so you believe there is something wrong with you? |
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Andrei Ellman
Member #3,434
April 2003
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Quote: Is underwear over-rated? Well, according to superheroes, overwear is under-rated. nonnus29 said: That's disgusting, and completely plausible. Bear in mind that back then, most ground outside was just bare earth, and paved ground was extremely rare. And of course, society did not have such a squeamishness about personal hygene, although modesty was still desired. When I went to the Mongolian steppes, I was introduced to a delightful piece of attire known as a 'toilet-coat'. This is a coat with a very spacious bottom-half that goes all the way to the ground. Mongolian Gers do not have an indoor toilet, and the steppe landscape is featureless and does not have any trees to hide behind. To solve the problem of modesty, the residents would take it in turns to borrow the toilet-coat and walk 10 minutes to the nearest hill that blocks the view, and while still wearing the coat, would just let loose (there's enough room in the coat to squat, men could go this way too, and even #2 was possible as well). Not only did it give you modesty, but during the winter (where temperatures can go as low as -50c), it would also keep your parts warm. Helium Wheatley said: The pee doesn't just go straight down. It runs down their leg if they try to pee standing up. I just tried to look up the bit about dresses in Wikipedia to see if that was why they were invented. The article on dresses did not have any useful information, but I did find this little gem instead. Helium Wheatley said: Although there are techniques for women to use a urinal, it involves having their hands down their pants and hence negates your myth anyway. Do you mean this? Mint-Tulip manuelpilaralalalalai said: they hold the pad (also known as the sanitary napkin) in place. Pads with wings are the best. So basically, underwear is just one glorified sanity-pad holder. AE. -- |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Quote: ...so you believe there is something wrong with you? No, not really. I have some mental disorders, but I don't see that as being wrong. For the most part, I still function more highly than most people.
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Quote: Mint-Tulip manuelpilaralalalalai said:
I don't believe the line between having a mental disorder and a personality trait is black and white. I think it's a matter of degree.. |
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HardTranceFan
Member #7,317
June 2006
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Quote: It took me years to realize that when people say "How are you/how's it going" they're not really asking you how you are. It's also difficult for someone foreign and coming up against the colloquial English language to understand the meaning of such phrases. Unless you're familiar with them, they are often taken at face value. Another one I had great difficulty with is "You did that, did you not?". I couldn't work out if I had to answer "yes" to the "You did that" part, or "no" to the "did you not" bit, and on more than one occasion had answered "yes, err no, umm I don't know" to it. It took me years to get over the irrationality behind the line and work out how it had to be answered. -- |
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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Quote: It took me years to get over the irrationality behind the line and work out how it had to be answered. I believe the correct answer is: "I didn't do it. Nobody saw me do it. You can't prove a thing."
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Richard Phipps
Member #1,632
November 2001
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Actually it's 'I deny everything!' |
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