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Vanneto
Member #8,643
May 2007
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Then you have to think more logically. 1. Bite her tounge off, That way, she cant talk and point. Youre off the hook. In capitalist America bank robs you. |
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Kibiz0r
Member #6,203
September 2005
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Just don't do what I did and accidentally set the first date on Valentine's Day. That's some l.o.l. --- |
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Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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To be fair they were dating for a bit and they had a little disagreement. Most of my friends laugh it off and joke about it because they never liked this girl to begin with. They always found her to be difficult and bitchy to deal with. He lost some of my respect when he did. ================================================= |
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Vanneto
Member #8,643
May 2007
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@Samuel, if my friend punched a woman in the face... He would not only lose all of my respect, but both his arms and legs. OK, not really, but I would give him a beating. In capitalist America bank robs you. |
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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Quote: if my friend punched a woman in the face I take it, he's not Klingon? Possumdude0: DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EDIT: You're in the dorm? You lucky bastard. I had to go through the same thing, except I car pooled to school.
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Milan Mimica
Member #3,877
September 2003
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Possumdude0: just go there and do it. You'll probably say something you didn't mean to, but don't worry about acting like an idiot. It is an inevitable destiny for guys to act like idiots in front of girls they like. And girls are aware of that... at least I hope so.
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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She hasn't come back yet. I know because i have the first room inside the door, and none of the people walking past had voices like hers. I'm here again because I got bored of Halo. The "be yourself" advice is pointless; what else can a person be? If that person happens to be the kind of person who tries to act like someone else, then that's who he is. Fortunately for me, I'm not skilled enough to act like someone else, so I'm just myself naturally.
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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Quote: The "be yourself" advice is pointless; what else can a person be?
You can act like a better you. I've done that before. That's fun Quote: I know because i have the first room inside the door, and none of the people walking past had voices like hers.
Maybe she's a ninja and snuck past! Ninja girl is in your ceiling watching you masterbate
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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Well, if she wanted to sneak past me, she could, although the door she has to open that's right outside my room (the one into our hallway) is kinda loud. But if she wants to sneak past me that means she doesn't like me and therefor I don't want to go over there. But I know she's still gone, because she showed me ehr schedule yesterday and she has something going on with her International Orientation group until, I think, 7. By the way it's 6:30 here.
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Mark Oates
Member #1,146
March 2001
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What kind of a chick is she? does she have a major? Here's what you should do right here: Have several fantasies concerning different ways that you might meet her. Then, consider each possible way that the conversation might go. Evaluate for the most coolest way to converse within those situations. Bam! chick magnet! vanneto said: Change youre avatar? Dont you dare remove those cute little sheep from this forum! I have variations on the sheep theme which I stick with. The current one is 'summer'. -- |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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She's a business major, and she's in her second year of college, and she's attractive, and she seems to be a good person from what I've seen. That's pretty much all I know. Oh, and she doesn't like to drink soda.
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Ok this is what you do ask her "has she seen <a scary movie that is on dvd >" wow |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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I can't afford to go to the theater.
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Onewing
Member #6,152
August 2005
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Quote: I can't afford to go to the theater. Sex stares are free in most countries. ------------ |
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Possumdude0 said: It's true, I am. Or at least, I keep telling myself that in the hopes of shaming myself. There's this girl in my residence hall that I really like, and I just can't work up the nerve to go ask her out. I feel... well, like a coward. I know that I should just go and ask, because the worst she can do is say "no", which wouldn't really be the end of the world, and yet, I can't make myself go do it.
DO IT! Possumdude0 said: So, have you ever had a similar problem, and how did you deal with it?
There's a thread here somewhere... Possumdude0 said: I didn't ask or anything, she just waited for me to get my food and get through the checkout line and sat down with me. Seriously dude, go for it. She's gonna say yes. Women expect confidence and judging from this thread, your conscious mind is afraid to show it. Suppress it. Subconsciously you know how awesome you are so just go at it like that. You have a date to gain by asking and a date to lose by not. -- acc.js | al4anim - Allegro 4 Animation library | Allegro 5 VS/NuGet Guide | Allegro.cc Mockup | Allegro.cc <code> Tag | Allegro 4 Timer Example (w/ Semaphores) | Allegro 5 "Winpkg" (MSVC readme) | Bambot | Blog | C++ STL Container Flowchart | Castopulence Software | Check Return Values | Derail? | Is This A Discussion? Flow Chart | Filesystem Hierarchy Standard | Clean Code Talks - Global State and Singletons | How To Use Header Files | GNU/Linux (Debian, Fedora, Gentoo) | rot (rot13, rot47, rotN) | Streaming |
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Matthew Leverton
Supreme Loser
January 1999
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Just stalk her on Facebook. |
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HardTranceFan
Member #7,317
June 2006
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http://www.allegro.cc/files/attachment/592990 -- |
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Neil Black
Member #7,867
October 2006
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I got called away to some crappy social event with my orientation group. Normally I would have thought it was fun, but by the time we got back she had gone to sleep (her light's out). Now I have to sustain my current level of confidence until tomorrow. The bad thing is, as we were driving away from my residence hall, I saw her heading towards the food court. I missed her by less than a minute. The censorship on this site won't let me accurately describe my feelings about that.
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: I can't afford to go to the theater. wow what do you want to achevie. you need to get some money first dude. tell me about your self i would never guess you did not have $10 wow |
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Kwame Alexander
Member #3,759
August 2003
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I've been in this situation many times. All the way up to third-year university, I was afraid to make a move. The terrible demon of rejection kept staring me down. When I was 21, I got sick of it and remembered an excellent quote that I once read. "It's not enough to merely face your fears. You must run screaming toward them," With that thought in mind, I went out to bars, clubs and other meeting places with the purpose of getting rejected. That's right. Go out and get rejected. Maybe not with this girl you're worried about, but with someone. Many someones. I broke 200 before I was 23, but that might be a bit extreme. The point is that once you see that rejection is not so bad (it's not!) and you experience it repeatedly, it loses its teeth. You stop fearing it. If you get shot down by that girl, it becomes a slight annoyance, nothing more. Go out and get shot down! ...and about the typical, well-meaning "Just be yourself," advice, I present my signature. -------------------------- |
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blargmob
Member #8,356
February 2007
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Erase your memory by banging your head on teh wall..you are garunteed (sp?) to lose 1000 brian cells everey bang..Then you won't know who she is..once you see her you'll recognize she's good looking.. then ask..I meen..don't ask..just tell her come with you to go get coffee..:o OR Plan A: (I saw this on The Pickup Artist) " Be interesting..then the woman will become interested in you.." Plan B: (If Plan A fails) Get on your knees and beg.. Fail Safe: (If ALL ELSE FAILS) Turn your back and go play Halo.. --- |
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wearetheborg
Queen of the Universe
June 2003
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I agree with the others. You don't have to ask her out right away... Just try getting to know her as a friend and see what kind of vibes you get from her. I know what you're going through... I liked a guy but I wasn't about to ask him out - I prefer being asked rather than doing the asking myself (yes, I'm sexist like that)
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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Quote: The censorship on this site won't let me accurately describe my feelings about that. YOU MOTHERFUCKING ASS BITCH! YOU GOTTA SHITTING DO THAT FUCK! ... Anyway, man tonight is gonna be hell for you, but look at the bright side. As soon as you finally get the chance to ask her, and she says yes, you'll feel like the luckiest man in the world. Best of luck! Let us know when you succeed. Perhaps you will inspire hope in the bachelors of A.cc EDIT: Quote: With that thought in mind, I went out to bars, clubs and other meeting places with the purpose of getting rejected. So you ran into the bars screaming "FOR SPARTA!!!"? Well, while we're on the topic of good quotes: "You are so money and you don't even know it."
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piccolo
Member #3,163
January 2003
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Quote: then ask..I meen..don't ask..just tell her come with you to go get coffee.. yup if she dose not want to come your going to get coffee any way or your going to see the movie away i was just asking if you wanted to come dont feel spacel like the reson im going is just to take you out wow |
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Billybob
Member #3,136
January 2003
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I'm still waiting for you to ask me out piccolo.
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sigh And then when I moved on campus I rarely ever ran into the girl. Maybe like, twice. Go figure. 
Oh well, another semester starts soon. WOOOO!
And afterwards you actually become a little bit more like that "better you."
NOW! 
