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Father has passed away
LennyLen
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December 2004
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My condolences.

OICW
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November 2003
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My condolences.

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Crazy Photon
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July 2002
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why bring it up here (just curious)?

Because I had told a couple of times that my father was very ill and some might care, also it helps me to get better, even if just a bit ;)

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Sporus
Member #3,815
August 2003
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That's really sad. My condolences. :(

At least you can be happy for getting to spend a lot of time with him; mine died when I was six.
(Yes, just trying to point out happy things, not fishing for pity points.)

Michael Faerber
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July 2004
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My condolences to you and your family.

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Marco Radaelli
Member #3,028
December 2002
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:(
My condolences.

Thomas Fjellstrom
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June 2000
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Man, I just had an afternoon out with my dad yesterday, and during dinner he tells me he came VERY close to having a major heart attack 3 different times this past year. Scared the living bejeebers out of me. Thank god its getting fixed.

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le_y_mistar
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January 2007
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Condolences. I hope you recover and move on soon. Keep your head up.

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Matt Smith
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November 2000

Bad luck, mate. My sympathies.

Eradicor
Member #2,992
December 2002
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When my old man dies (should be quite soon) ... i will be clad.. Only good thing he managed to do was create me :D. He has had alcohol problem for about 20 years and is having serious health issues nowdays and wont propaply live more than 5 years now (he is about 55 years old).

But still.. my condolenses to Crazy Phot... I imagine if you liked your dad , then i guess it sucks.

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manjula
Member #3,569
June 2003
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I'll be thinking of you and your family. Your father fought a good and hard fight.

Crazy Photon
Member #2,588
July 2002
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i guess it sucks

It does, as he had many projects to do and be more time with the family after retiring (he was 53).

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Your father fought a good and hard fight.

I know :) he is at peace now, and so am I.

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Johan Halmén
Member #1,550
September 2001

Last night I dreamt something about my father, but I don't remember the dream. My father died two years ago, he was a bit over 70 and suffered from a lot of things, Parkinson, Alzheimer etc. It was an 8 year long downhill journey and the end was very obvious. Anyhow I was very sad when it happened, because the very end came due to a neglection of care at the nursing home. My mom took care of him most of the time, but she had to have some time off once in a while. At the nursing home he got an inflammation in his mouth, so he couldn't take his Parkinson medicine, which made him so stiff that the heart couldn't handle it. It was only a question of time, but anyway I felt frustrated and disappointed.

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Tobias Dammers
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August 2002
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That sucks man. My dad's sick right now, and we can't afford to go to a doctor. We just have to hope he gets better, but I just don't know if he will.

When I first read that, I just had to check your profile - you're living in the US of A? Even Cuba has a better health system than that. Human rights anyone? Anyway, that's bad.

OT: Condolences from me, too.

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I know he is at peace now, and so am I.

That's at least one good thing.

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Kikaru
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August 2006
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But Cuba also has bad health care. Which do you want: health care that actually does something, or really really cheap health care? ;)

BAF
Member #2,981
December 2002
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Even the US has medicaid/welfare/etc for people who need it... but it seems like the people who know how to work the system end up with it more often than not.

Tobias Dammers
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August 2002
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But Cuba also has bad health care.

Not quite. Cuban doctors are among the best in Latin America. So good actually, that lots of Westerners see them for cosmetic surgery, thereby helping to pay for the free healthcare for Cubans; so good that Venezuela is willing to trade their oil for Cuban medical know-how.
Problem is, because of the US embargo, drugs are scarce and extremely expensive. So you go to the highly qualified doctor, and he ends up telling you, OK, I know exactly what the problem is and how to fix it, but I can't, unless you can find me drug XYZ. So the healthcare is bad, but it being free isn't the reason.
Personally, I think that the best possible health care (I'm not talking luxury stuff here, just what you need to be healthy and comfortable) should generally be free for everybody. I'd rather pay 10% more taxes (or more), if that would mean free healthcare at all times. If I get cancer, by what logic do I deserve to either pay massive sums for treatment, or be left to die? Sure, it'd make things cheaper for those of us who are lucky, but at what cost? Healthcare should be a guaranteed human right. So there you have it, I'm a st***ing commie.

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Kikaru
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August 2006
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No, your just weird. Think Canada. ;)

OICW
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November 2003
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I'm a st***ing commie.

Yep, I wanted to add that too ;) Anyway I was shocked when I read that post, but then I realised that he must be from the USA.

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Thomas Fjellstrom
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No, your just weird. Think Canada. ;)

Its not exactly free. We pay premiums (not that expensive), and Taxes for it. And its falling apart ::) Stupid ass gov't cutbacks for decades. Now even a massive cash infusuion wont help because the infrastructure just isn't there.

The old Albertan premier was pushing a two tiered health care system like the States has. Talk about stupid.

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Kikaru
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August 2006
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That's what I was saying. ::)

Samuel Henderson
Member #3,757
August 2003
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Yes because us Canadians, (where I live at least) would much rather sit in an emergency room for 6 hours because there are not enough doctors and nurses.

The last time I was in the emergency room I saw a man who had nearly severed his thumb (it was hanging off his hand) wait for 3 hours before he could be tended to. I was vommiting about every 10 minutes for a few hours and I wound up waiting for 6 hours...

I don't mind that people with more serious problems are admitted for treatment above me, but I do mind when everyone is waiting hours on end because the hospitals are short staffed.

I would think it would almost be much better we had national free healthcare everyone, and those with more money could go recieve treatment immediately at the cost of paying out of their pocket.

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To be fair, Northern Ontario seems to be shafted by the province alot, maybe it's just this community that is experiencing these shortages...

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BAF
Member #2,981
December 2002
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Wow, we turned a condolence thread into an argument. Yay. ::)

Samuel Henderson
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August 2003
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Wow, we turned a condolence thread into an argument. Yay

Crap! Now I feel terrible. Sorry Crazy Photon. I'll shut up now :-/:-[

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Kikaru
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August 2006
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Me too. Sorry. :-X

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