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Facebook is freaking scary
Bruce Perry
Member #270
April 2000

So I have two e-mail accounts. One of them is associated with my Facebook account. The other one is a Hotmail one I created for spam purposes with the name 'Santa Claus' for use with sites I didn't trust if they wanted an e-mail address. I started using the Hotmail one for MSN Messenger since I got the impression I had to use something provided by Microsoft (which may have been true at the time), and it stuck.

I just got an e-mail on the Hotmail one:

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Hi Santa,

I am actually Facebook but I'm going to pretend to be your friend and write a fake recommendation for Facebook because I'm dishonest like that. So here goes. I set up a Facebook profile where I can post my pictures, videos and events and I want to add you as a friend so you can see it. First, you need to join Facebook! Once you join, you can also create your own profile. I'm sure you'd love to share your data with a shifty person, since you're stupid.

Thanks,
[friend's name here]

That doesn't bother me so much any more - I'm used to it. What scared me was the list of "Other people [I] may know on Facebook". There are nine people from my MSN contacts.

I don't remember doing anything that would give Facebook access to that information.

What I think happened is those nine people gave Facebook access to their own contact lists, and Facebook found me on each list and created the reverse mapping for me. Still, it took me some time to figure out and was really frigging scary in the meantime.

Tomasu comments that Google probably has even more horrific amounts of information about me, but somehow I don't mind so much. I think it's because Google are better at being (or at least appearing) honest and respectful.

Yeah. Rant for the day.

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Goalie Ca
Member #2,579
July 2002
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So, i went on this sort of blind date with someone from plentyoffish quite a while back. She was a newfie with a lot of personality! A few days later i saw her name on my suggested friends list. How the fuck did that happen!? She wasn't a facebook friend for anyone of my friends and i never had her msn or email or anything.

btw. plentyoffish was a weird experience. I went on a few dates with different but very pretty girls and very educated girls, one i was with for 3 weeks but all in all.. i would say that the internet people and real-life people are the exact same dating pool except on the internet the expectations for success are much lower and people are more willing to dump you right away rather than put in any effort.

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Dustin Dettmer
Member #3,935
October 2003
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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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Tomasu comments that Google probably has even more horrific amounts of information about me, but somehow I don't mind so much. I think it's because Google are better at being (or at least appearing) honest and respectful.

I'll second this. I find that Google services are user-friendly, powerful, and respectful.

jhuuskon
Member #302
April 2000
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Replacing search terms with irrelevant words is not user-friendly, powerful nor respectful.

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gnolam
Member #2,030
March 2002
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Amen. Not actually supporting non-English searches (å != ä != a), adding stupid DHTML crap for no good reason at all, or automatically connecting your e-mail users to a social network is not "user-friendly, powerful and respectful" either.

Also:

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bamccaig
Member #7,536
July 2006
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I would imagine that the character matching is a feature intended to help the majority of idiots in the world that don't care to be exact. What Google needs now is an explicit mode for those of us that know exactly what we want to search for, including special characters (i.e., programming symbols). It would probably be very expensive, but a fully-featured regex search of the Web would be teh awesome. ;D

DanielH
Member #934
January 2001
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I have no idea how this happened:

Opened facebook, on the right hand side there was a suggestion to add Miran Amon. I have no other Allegroites as friends, how, why?

Dustin Dettmer
Member #3,935
October 2003
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Vanneto
Member #8,643
May 2007
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Information is power. Nuff' said.

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miran
Member #2,407
June 2002

DanielH said:

I have no idea how this happened:

Opened facebook, on the right hand side there was a suggestion to add Miran Amon. I have no other Allegroites as friends, how, why?

And I got a suggestion to add Daniel Harmon! So I did. And you confirmed. ;D

Don't remember who it was that suggested me to you and you to me though. I think it might have been Mickaël whats-his-name. I'm sure he'll post here soon. :)

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GullRaDriel
Member #3,861
September 2003
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Mickaël Castagnier, that's me ^^

I gave all the allegro related contact I had to each new allegro facebook-er

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OICW
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November 2003
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Just when I began to think about Facebook making vast internet search for sites you visit.

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Elias
Member #358
May 2000

I had my account for about a year with 0 friends then I joined Trent's Monster 2 facebook page as a fan and within a few days got a friend request from about everyone here on allegro.cc it seems :)

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LennyLen
Member #5,313
December 2004
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Elias said:

I had my account for about a year with 0 friends then I joined Trent's Monster 2 facebook page as a fan and within a few days got a friend request from about everyone here on allegro.cc it seems

Nobody has added me yet. :(

Granted, I haven't yet got around to announcing who I am in either the Monster 2 or Allegro groups walls.

Tobias Dammers
Member #2,604
August 2002
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Nobody has added me yet.

Granted, I don't have a facebook account and I'm not planning on getting one either.

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August 2005
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jhuuskon
Member #302
April 2000
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Yeah yeah. Facebook accounts are like STD's. Everyone proudly exclaims they're never gonna get one but end up having one anyway.

You don't deserve my sig.

Derezo
Member #1,666
April 2001
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I don't remember doing anything that would give Facebook access to that information.

The other day I received an email from linked in which made me notice that MSN contact lists are NOT private information. Had a friend who lives in town as well as Gnatinator in the list.

No idea how it even linked me to my MSN list, though. I don't use the email address for anything at all. However, I do use the name Derezo for everything, and that email is Derezo@hotmail.com.

Privacy is sooooo last millenium. ;)

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Bruce Perry
Member #270
April 2000

Could your experience be explained the same way as mine?

If Gnatinator (now there's a name I haven't heard for a while!) and your local friend voluntarily allowed LinkedIn to see their own contact lists, then LinkedIn could calculate the corresponding subset of your list. I'm fairly sure that's what Facebook did for me.

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